The Surprise
Silbermann expected the work to be hard. He was ready for that.
What surprised him was the loneliness. The complete isolation of being the person in charge.
You cannot tell your team you are scared. You cannot tell investors things are bad. You carry it alone.
The Weight
Every founder has fears they cannot share.
What if we run out of money? What if the product fails? What if I am not good enough?
These thoughts live in your head with no outlet. That is the loneliness.
Nobody tells you about the loneliness.
The Fix
Silbermann says the only fix is other founders. People who understand.
Not mentors. Not investors. Other founders who are going through it right now.
That peer group is the only place you can be honest. Find it.