Harness, Do Not Fight
People are social. They seek status. They want to belong. They fear missing out.
The best products harness these instincts. They do not try to change behavior.
LinkedIn harnessed professional identity. Facebook harnessed social connection. Both rode human nature.
The Forces
Social proof: if others use it, I should too.
Reciprocity: you helped me, I will help you back.
Identity: this product says something about who I am.
Products that tap all three become unstoppable.
The most successful products harness human nature.
Fighting Nature Loses
Products that ask users to change their behavior fail.
You cannot make people suddenly love budgeting or exercise through an app.
But you can make budgeting feel like a game. Or exercise feel like status. That is harnessing, not fighting.