The Conversations That Never Happened
Most co-founder conflicts come from things left unsaid.
How much equity does each person get? Who makes the final call? What if one person wants to quit?
If you do not answer these on day one, you will answer them with lawyers.
Equity
Altman says equity disputes are the number one killer of founding teams.
If one founder feels they got a raw deal, resentment builds slowly. Then explodes.
Split equity early. Make it fair. Put it in writing. Do not revisit it.
Almost every blowup comes from a conversation that never happened on day one.
Work Mismatch
One founder works 80 hours. The other works 40. Both think they are working hard.
This asymmetry creates poison. The hard worker resents. The other feels attacked.
Set expectations early. Define what all-in means for both of you.