The Double Standard
Gurley: There's this great dichotomy. We've all gotten so excited about the notion of work-life balance. When we study great athletes or musicians or chess players, or even a painter — if a ballet dancer works 80 hours a week on her craft, we all think that's glorious. Oh my God, Michael Jordan practices more than anyone else.
But when you apply it to the work environment, all of a sudden it's heretical. Oh my God, they don't believe in work-life balance. Well, it's the same thing.
If a ballet dancer works 80 hours a week, we all think that's glorious. But in business, all of a sudden it's heretical.
The Trade-Off
Gurley: If you want to be at the top of your game, you've got to decide whether you want to make that trade-off or not. You don't have to. There are plenty of jobs on this planet where you can work 9 to 5. And you may care way more about your family life, personal life — and that's fine too.
But to think that you're going to excel and not grind? Good luck.
To think that you're going to excel and not grind? Good luck.